Thursday, May 23, 2019

Thursday 23 rd May 2019......a long read!!!

Well I do not think you have to be a tennis fan to find this article interesting!!!


Novak Djokovic: How 1999 Nato bombings of Belgrade shaped his career

By Jonathan Jurejko & Slobodan Maricic


A mural depicts Djokovic outside the flat where he stayed during the bombing of Belgrade in 1999




Looking up from the street, this concrete, angular building looks no different from the many Brutalist tower blocks dotted around Belgrade.

As you go inside, a prison-style gate with vertical metal bars guards the white front door of the first flat on the left.

This was the home of Novak Djokovic's grandfather Vladimir.

Here, the world's leading male tennis player sheltered as a small child while Nato bombed the Serbian capital between March and June 1999.

When the head-pounding drone of air-raid sirens rang out, families spanning several generations, along with neighbours and friends from nearby blocks, all filed down the stairs, through several steel doors and into the basement.

This was a formative time for Djokovic, now a 15-time Grand Slam singles champion and the man who will hold all four major titles for the second time in his career if he wins the forthcoming French Open.

As he celebrated his 12th birthday in May 1999, a decade-long crisis was tearing the Balkans apart and Belgrade was a focal point. Twenty years on, there is still tension over how Nato bombed Serbia for 11 weeks in an effort to push Serbian forces out of Kosovo, accusing them of atrocities against ethnic Albanians.


"When they sounded the alarm and the planes started to buzz, you never knew where the bombs would hit," says Djordjo Milenic, an elderly man who was friends with Djokovic's grandfather and lives in the adjacent block.

"They bombed whatever they wanted. 'Collateral damage,' they said. They bombed bridges, hospitals, pregnant women died."

His voice trails off. "It's hard, it's hard."

We are in Banjica, a residential area about 7km south of downtown Belgrade. Locals describe it as "an average suburb", populated by working-class families from a Serbian ethnic background who live in moderately cheap high-rise flats.

Djokovic's grandfather Vlada, as he was known by those close to him, lived in a two-bedroom flat here until his death in 2012.

Now it is unoccupied, owned - according to neighbours, at least - by one of Djokovic's aunts, who they think lives in Switzerland.

Nevertheless, it will always be intrinsically linked to the story of how Djokovic rose from humble beginnings to become one of the greatest tennis players that has ever lived.

Djokovic was here with his widowed grandfather because his parents, father Srdjan and mother Dijana, spent most of their time away from Belgrade as they toiled to provide for their three sons - eldest Novak and his two younger brothers Marko and Djordje.

That meant spending most of the year in Kopaonik, a mountain resort near Kosovo, more than four hours' drive from Belgrade.

By day they gave skiing lessons, by night they served pizza in the restaurant they owned. Srdjan and Dijana worked tirelessly to make ends meet while funding Novak's burgeoning tennis career.

Not wishing to disrupt their children's education, the Djokovic boys stayed with granddad Vlada.

"The basement is practically where we stayed. Everyone who could fit here they came, there was no limitation," Novak said in an American TV documentary made by CBS in 2011.

"We were waking up every single night at 2am or 3am for two and a half months because of the bombings," he said of those 78 days in 1999.

"In a way these experiences made me a champion, it made us tougher, made us more hungry for success."

Many people around Banjica know the Djokovic family. Some shared the basement where they sheltered.

Milica Milivojevic is a 31-year-old woman who lives upstairs in Djokovic's old block.

She says there were about "20 or 30" people inside the shelter, remembering it smelt of "moisture and humidity".

"We heard bombs, but not while we were in the shelter," she says.

"From outside we could hear bombs falling on Avala (a hill on the edge of Belgrade targeted because there was a telecommunications tower).

"Friends gathered in the basement, especially younger people. We played some board games - Monopoly or Risk - some older kids were drinking or doing drugs."

She starts laughing: "A lot was going on."




Of course there is no suggestion Djokovic, a child prodigy who had already appeared on national television proclaiming his dream was to win Wimbledon, took part in the 'edgier' adolescent activities.

He was too busy pursuing his dream of becoming world number one.


Two murals celebrating Djokovic's achievements have been painted on tower blocks in Banjica. 'With belief in God' is the slogan accompanying this one.

Bogdan Obradovic has seen a lot in a life which has been dominated by tennis and politics.

A promising junior player who moved into coaching aged 18, Obradovic was approached by Djokovic's father Srdjan to guide his 10-year-old boy.

Later, Obradovic went on to become Serbia's Davis Cup captain - leading them to one of the nation's greatest sporting triumphs when the team containing Djokovic won the trophy in 2010. Now 52, he serves as a member of Serbia's parliament.

"Novak's father and I had some mutual friends and they told him I was a good coach and could maybe help him," he says.

"We did one practice and I was completely shocked.

"He was completely prepared. He was warming up, he had a bottle of water, a banana, a towel, everything. I had never seen that from a kid so young."

Obradovic knew he was a player - at that time "weighing around 25kg" - destined for the top.

During the bombings he says they worked together "every day", going around Belgrade in search of courts they didn't have to pay to use.

"By that time people knew Novak and he was already popular so they helped him a lot. We trained at many different clubs," he says. "It was improvisation but that's how we did it.

"You know Only Fools and Horses? We love it here. And that is actually our mentality. We do everything through fun. And we always think, like Del Boy, our luck will change.

"We were in a terrible situation during the bombings. You hear the sound and see on the news, people were killed and everything is destroyed. But you can do nothing, and we found a way how to make fun.

"I was with Novak all the time, we practised together and every day was like normal. He was focused but having so much fun at that time. He laughed so much."

Djokovic often trained at the Partizan Tennis Club, an arm of the multi-sport body which also includes the 27-time national champion football team, plus successful basketball, water polo and volleyball sides.

Dusan Grujic has been the Partizan president for 22 years and says this is the club Djokovic "has in his heart".

"When you spend 11 years somewhere, like he did here, I don't know how we could say anything different," he adds.

"Novak made his first steps at Kopaonik, but that was only for a short time. When he was six, he came to Partizan. We provided him with everything we could and everything he wanted."

Photos of their greatest son, along with other alumni including 2008 French Open champion Ana Ivanovic, line the walls of a modest clubhouse.

One shows a boyish Novak wearing a Partizan baseball cap and scarf, alongside childhood friend Ivanovic. Djokovic's neighbour Djordjo Milenic says he used to tell grandfather Vlada that Novak "should marry her".

Another shows Djokovic at 16, wearing the club's black and white stripes as he concentrates intently on gearing up a double-handed backhand, a shot he has since honed into one of his most potent.

The clubhouse is being given its annual lick of paint on the day we arrive. Chairs and tables are stacked in the middle of the room while dust sheets cover the windows.

Dragan Gavrilovic - one of the members responsible for maintaining the 75-year-old club - is more than happy to down tools and talk tennis.

Pulling out a cigarette with white emulsion flicked over his fingers, he says: "When Novak was still small, from about 12 to 15, he used to come to play here and people from all over the city came to watch.

"They knew - and we knew - he was destined for big things. Everybody wanted to see him. They wanted to see history being born."

Back in Banjica, behind his old apartment block, a colourful mural shows Djokovic flanked on one side by the patriarchal grandfather he doted on, childhood coach Jelena Gencic on the other.

Locals wander past without blinking an eye. Some may not even realise Djokovic lived there, but not many.

A woman sweeping up leaves and dirt outside the one flat which has a garden stops to speak with us. "Yes, you should write about Novak, you should," she says.

"He's like from heaven. He's not human, yet he is a modest, normal guy."

She has lived here for 40 years. She points to the concrete football pitch behind us, where a few stray dogs are sleeping in the sun.

"That's where he used to play football. When he had time, of course, because he trained so much.

"Then he became famous, but he would still come here as often as he could, if it was for one day or five minutes."

The woman is reluctant to give her name and disappears back into her yard saying she doesn't want to talk any more.

But she returns a few minutes later, clearly unable to stop herself sharing the pride and love she has for Djokovic.

She was one of the many who spent nights down in the basement bomb shelter. Once that subject comes up, she retreats again.

"Let's not talk about that," she says. "It's not nice to talk about what your neighbours did in such a delicate time."

Yet she adds: "When we were there I told the younger ones to run, to leave the country. At that time we thought they will not bomb the civilians. But they did."

Nato - the North Atlantic Treaty Organisation, the world's most powerful regional defence alliance - began its air strikes against Serbia on 24 March 1999.

Accused of ethnic cleansing in Kosovo, Yugoslav leader Slobodan Milosevic's regime was targeted in an attempt to force their troops out and allow international peacekeepers in, after diplomatic efforts failed.

The bombing campaign ended on 10 June 1999, when Yugoslav troops began to withdraw from Kosovo.

Nato said intervention was necessary to "halt the humanitarian catastrophe that was unfolding". But a number of attacks were "unlawful", according to Human Rights Watch - an independent organisation which investigates rights abuses across the world.

Wounds still run deep in Serbia, and resentment towards Nato - and the countries which make it up - is prevalent on the streets of Belgrade.

"We are trying to be 'part of Europe'. How come, when we are now part of Europe? How will they accept us, when we are European right now?" Djordjo Milenic, Djokovic's old neighbour, says.

"They bombed us and now they say we are friends. That's all organised by America and Britain."

Bombs hit the Yugoslav Ministry of Defence building in central Belgrade twice in the space of 15 minutes in the early hours of 30 April, 1999. It has still not been rebuilt.

Kosovo especially remains a major topic. A political message outside the Partizan Tennis Club - one of many such slogans daubed around Belgrade - reads: 'Kosovo is a holy Serbian land.'

Many feel the 'Western' media are obsessed with portraying a negative stereotype of the country as aggressive, unfriendly or hostile. That is another recurring topic of conversation in the city. And yet many others would rather move on.

"People think we are bad people," says George Mitic, a 37-year-old taxi driver.

"But they don't come and see for themselves. If you only watch the news you have a completely different view."

He tells a story from the previous night.

"I picked up some Scandinavians from the airport, they had come for business. They said they were scared.

"I said, 'why are you scared?' They replied, 'because you've had war here'."

"I told them we are open and friendly people."


Nato launched an air campaign in Serbia - named Operation Allied Force - on 24 March, 1999. It lasted for 78 nights.

Sasa Ozmo, a journalist for Sport Klub, describes Djokovic as a "national hero" who deeply understands the responsibility he has of promoting the nation's image across the world.

"But not only is he an ambassador outwards to the world, but he is also an ambassador within," he says.

"For example, there is a huge rivalry with Croatia - obviously there was the war and things stay fresh - but Novak is always very public about his support for the Croatian national football team.

"That doesn't sit well with a lot of people here, but he is trying to change perspective. He's really good at that responsibility."

Recently Djokovic finished top of a national newspaper poll which asked young people in Serbia who they looked up to the most.

"He is a huge role model. We've had some really huge athletes who have inspired generations but they haven't inspired people in the same way Novak has done," Ozmo adds.

"For example, we have a basketball player called Vlade Divac who is also a huge global ambassador and played in the NBA during the bombings.

"But Novak's range is much wider - he is a 'catch all' hero in Serbia. The way his personality is he can identify with people.

"Tennis is the country's third sport behind football and basketball - but Novak is the most popular.


Have a great evening!!!!


Yashi Kochi!!!

Wednesday, May 22, 2019

Wednesday 22 nd May 2019......yet another one!!!

Well it had to happen..another year older....not really thrilled about another number added on to the total but of course not interested in the alternative!!!!




Ok anyone who wants to know today I achieved three score and ten and then one more year!!!


Emily decided to stay home from work today and also to keep Jonah home again....it is a gorgeous sunny day so after breakfast I got Jonah all ready and went for almost a three hour walk with Jonah..


We found another park which is quite lovely..











.he enjoys being outside and his vocabulary is really good and he especially loves dogs and likes to ask the owners what is the dog’s name!!!!


After lunch we all managed to get in one vehicle and we took the kids to another lovely park....










so nice to be warm and see the children having fun..totally surprised at all the green space and parks within 20 minute drive!!!


Tonight Gracie took me out to this lovely English style restaurant for dinner and I chose Cottage pie......very nice indeed!!


Thanks for all the Birthday wishes..I had a wonderful day!!


Yashi Kochi!!!!

Tuesday, May 21, 2019

Tuesday 21st May 2019.... walking day!!!

Today was a little different as last Jonah was sick and his parents took him to the doctor last night he has a fever and they gave him some medication...and decided to keep him home from day care today but this morning he was feeling much but they wanted him not to go to school but also not to get too close to Izzie...


So after breakfast the sun was shining and I took Jonah for a really long walk in the stroller...he seemed to enjoy the fresh air and then after a while fell asleep...we did not get back till almost mid day!! 


We stayed home for a couple of hours eating lunch and watching some cartoons. Fore going off for another long walk...he was feeling much better and we went to a park where he saw the ducks and played on the swings before coming home!!


Tonight Gracie and I went out for Chinese food which we both enjoyed!!


So glad he is feeling better and that now it seems the sunny days are here to stay!!


Yashi Kochi!!

Monday, May 20, 2019

Monday 20 th May 2019... in the movies!



When I took Izzie out in the stroller this morning about five minutes away is this restaurant and there was at least 100 technicians and film crew around....


A scene from the 2007 series finale of "The Sopranos" filmed at Holsten's in Bloomfield. The ice cream parlor and candy shop is also being used for the prequel movie "The Many saints of Newark”

It was the last place “Sopranos” fans saw Tony Soprano, munching on some onion rings with his family, before the abrupt cut to black in the series finale.




Now, Holsten’s Brookdale Confectionery, a Bloomfield ice cream parlor and candy shop, is set to become a part of “The Many Saints of Newark,” the forthcoming movie that will serve as a prequel to the show.

Holsten’s staff said the filming, delayed because of rain, would begin on May 20.

The movie, which is partially set in 1967, during the time of the Newark riots, filmed for a week in Newark starting on May 7 at Branford Place near Halsey Street and Hobby’s Delicatessen.

As of Friday, the production had installed a vintage-looking advertisement for Sprotts Bread (“Fresh-Baked Goodness”) on the side of Holsten’s.

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On Thursday, Holsten’s shared an image of retro signage being installed and assured customers the business would stay open on filming day.


For the Newark set, storefronts were transformed to look as if they existed more than 50 years ago. The old Adams Theatre was resurrected, marquee and all (playing “The Dirty Dozen,” a release from the summer of ’67). Streets were drenched with water and strewn with debris as background actors played Newark residents, police and National Guardsman in armored vehicles. Cameras captured the action from the street and a crane high above the scene.







Alan Taylor, the film’s director, and one of its stars, Alessandro Nivola, could be seen on set in Newark in recent days.

Nivola plays Dickie Moltisanti, father to series regular Christopher Moltisanti. The actor stars alongside a cast including Michael Gandolfini, son of James Gandolfini, who originated the role of Tony Soprano and won three Emmys for his performance in the show. The elder Gandolfini, who was born in Westwood and grew up in Park Ridge, died in 2013, at the age of 51.


Michael Gandolfini, who just turned 20, will play a young Tony. In March, he stopped by Holsten’s and took a photo in Tony’s booth.

We got onto the set of 'The Many Saints of Newark,’ the ‘Sopranos’ prequel. See the first photos.

The movie, which filmed in Newark on May 7, took the city back to 1967.




“Sopranos” creator David Chase co-wrote “The Many Saints of Newark” with Lawrence Konner. New Line Cinema is slated to release the film in theaters Sept. 25, 2020.

Other “Many Saints of Newark" cast members, whose roles are unknown, include New Jersey natives Ray Liotta (“GoodFellas”) and Vera Farmiga (“The Departed”); Leslie Odom Jr., who won a Tony for “Hamilton”; Jon Bernthal (“The Punisher”); Corey Stoll (“First Man”); Billy Magnussen (“Aladdin”); Jon Magaro (Chase’s “Not Fade Away”); and Italian actress Michela De Rossi.


At least 3,000 people auditioned for a chance to be an extra in the movie in Newark on April 25.


Yashi Kochi!!!

Sunday, May 19, 2019

Sunday 19th May 2019..... scenic drive!!!!

We had a wonderful fresh and home cooked breakfast this morning at the air bnb..this really was a ten star accommodation!!!


I had planned a circular route through some of the small mountain passes and the drive was really nice...quiet small roads!!!!





Scenery along the way....















We then parked and did this walk...
















It was a hit after but the wind kept us cool...


Great views!!!


The drive back was good until we reached the George Washington bridge and it took us a while with all the traffic...


It was nice to get away for a couple of days and we enjoyed the peace and tranquility!!!


Tony we start our three days in a row of babysitting!!


Yashi Kochi!!!

Saturday, May 18, 2019

Saturday 18 th May 2019...road trip!!!

A great day for our mini road trip to the Catskills area.......the drive was lovely although we did have to do some interstate driving....we went to our air bnb first and dropped off our bags it is an amazing old stone cottage located right on the river...breakfast included and the have a tub!







We then took a really scenic drive through the hills and valleys to the famous small town of Woodstock.......



Did not know this about Woodstock!!!







Walked around a little had some lunch and we found a flea type market area and we both treated ourselves to a pair of polarized sun glasses...I have never worn them before and boy what a difference they make and a great price too..20 dollars !!!











We then continued on a scenic mountain pass to these lovely water falls..





A short hike to the viewing area!!


Just beautiful!!!





Then back to out guest house..they supply tea and coffee and tea and we were still full from our lunch....so relaxed with tea before I jump in the tub!!


Will have to work on a route back home for tomorrow..I have some ideas so stay tuned!!


Yashi Kochi!!

Friday, May 17, 2019

Friday 17th May 2019...hiking day!!

Another lovely day and perfect my hiking day to here





About a 35 minute drive away...


Enjoy the views of the waterfall hike and then the hike around the reservoir ...



























It was about six miles and felt good to be out in the quiet woodlands...


I went to pick up Jonah after day care and we went to the park which he always loves....


Emily and Ryan are going out for dinner so we have night time duty!!!


Tomorrow taking off to the Catskills for an over night trip it will be my first time there..stay tuned!!


Yashi Kochi!!!

Thursday 5 th January 2023…it was a great run!!!

 This was my first ever blog post back in November of 2006!!! With just a couple of days off I have written a blog every day since and I hav...